December Reflections

It’s the 1st December, the year is about to end. As the year draws to an end. The time of reflection is upon us. Time to really think about the blessings and mistakes that have been made this year. When I started this year, I felt so helpless and full of pain. I really struggled […]

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Finding Inner Peace

How does one find peace after so much trauma and problems. That never ending cycle of disbelief. You learn to pick yourself up after the cycle of hurt. Some people just don’t know how much they can hurt people with words or even actions.  The one thing I had to learn about myself, learn […]

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The Birth Of Struggle?

We can go through life not knowing where its going to take us thats the unknown that comes with life, the not knowing that comes with real life struggle. How do we figure out how to navigate waters when we feel like we are drowning? I think that’s always the question we have for ourselves. […]

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Perception​ vs Reality

Perception vs reality…….Motherhood when people look at me what do they see? I often wonder, I used to think they saw a confrontational woman who is always speaking her mind. But sometimes that’s not the case. I learnt a long time ago there is two ears and one mouth. Life has a way of humbling […]

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Health is Wealth….

The saying goes health is wealth and being a black woman in this world it rings true in every form. Recently i went through me own crisis and it made me realise that i have to start taking better care of myself, i haven’t got high blood pressure or diabetes thank God and i have […]

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Breaking point

Seeing as it’s August I thought I would share this because I have been feeling like I’m at crossroads and I don’t know if it’s too do with all the retrogrades hitting me or just the energy I have been around but whats next once you hit the breaking point, How do you still continue […]

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Standstill

I have been at this standstill for a minute now and I’m just struggling on how to fight through it. Every choice I make I’m second guessing that. Lord help me. I guess that’s what being an adult is being sure of decisions and following through with it. I’m fighting this standstill I feel I […]

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Saying Goodbye…

As I write this lying in the dark at 6am. I have come to a hard realisation about how I have been feeling for the last couple of days. The whole feeling of being blocked and overwhelmed sweeps through me in a way I don’t recognise. friends of mine have always said that im like the ice queen of […]

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Let’s Talk About Race

I have never been the one to write down all my thoughts and feelings on race and racism especially in the UK. But after seeing something that I came across on Facebook it highlights to me that the problem isn’t black or brown people but white people who don’t want to recognise that their own […]

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New year, Same old me

I took a break from the blog, I needed space to think and clear my mind. I needed to put myself in a space that was ready for life. I was going through this crazy cycle of working, doing uni work, working out and just living and boy, I burnt myself out in such a […]

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